Se7en Things a Dad can give his children:
- He can give his heart: Just the slightest rattle of the front gate has everyone dashing to see of it their “father person.” Every departure, if it be for a day at the office or a quick dash down the road, is an important one – with se7en + 1 hugs to see him on his way.
- He can give them rest: My kids think there is nothing better than hanging out on the couch with their dad, wiling away their time together.
- He can give them adventures: He will take all his kids down the road at dusk, they will conquer fears, they’ll cross dangerous fields and return home safely having hunted down a quart of milk.
- He can give them a family: He has certainly given them a team of siblings. While my husband is no athlete, he and his gang make a great team. He wouldn’t dream of tackling a project without the help of his kids. – even if it is making pizza on Saturday night – everyone gets a turn to help.
- He can give them their needs: He doesn’t just provide the everyday stuff, he fulfills those extra things – sometimes things that they urgently need and sometimes things they want… not always material things. Sometimes our kids might need an hour or two out alone with their dad… it is something they need and something that only he can provide.
- He can give them life lessons: He teaches us about being faithful and how to pray to their Father in Heaven.
- He can give them strength: He teaches by example, he expects them to behave well and to go the extra mile when they are called too. And the kids love to rise to his expectations.
- He can give them confidence: He relies on them and signs them up: For jobs at church; for dinner guests; for all day guests… for all sorts of things. He is believes in what his kids can do and, while they don’t always do what he expects them to do, they do not disappoint him.
And the se7en + 1th thing:
Hope you had a great Father’s Day where ever you are!!!
HAPPY FATHER’S day to your father-person!!!!
Beautiful!
Lovely post!
what a proud daddy he must be!
I love this post. My husband travels for his job and is gone for months on end. There are times when I feel like our “father person” is gone so much, he is almost unnecessary, especially when he comes home and has to get to know his kids all over again. But this post makes me realize that I cannot alone provide everything our kids need. The point that I especially like is “he can give them rest.” I will remember that one when he sits them both on the couch and watches some movie with them instead of going out to play. (When he is gone, we watch zero television and the very occasional movie. The movie-watching increases ten-fold when he is home, much to my frustration!) 🙂 Thank you for opening my eyes today! And I hope your father-person had a great day with your beautiful family!
Precious!!
Steph
Oh Katherine Marie… I hope you had such a special Father’s Day with your father person and your pops over!!! Hope you are making wonderful memories together!!! Lots of love!!!
Thank you Lopke D, Hope you have a wonderful week!!!
Hay Tammy, Thank you, Hope you have a great day with your family!!! See you soon!!!
Thank you Kim, I think that may be the case!!! Hope you have a great day!!!
Hi there Brenda… Your comment made me smile, I could have written it!!! Until we had four kids my hubs used to travel a lot – three months out and a week home and off again. I so know where you are coming from!!! He doesn’t travel anymore, but like most dads he works like a trojan, and definitely is home to rest. Your TV situation sounds exactly like ours – I never even think to put it on!!! I can say if he travels or not, my kids all know that they have screen time with their dad and not their mom!!! I guess I am all about doing projects with my kids and their dad is all about chilling out!!! Different parents have different styles and kids know that. But I want my kids to be close to their Dad and the best way to get close is to hang out together… So chilling and screen time are part of that… and endless trips to the store, running errands and so on!!! Wishing you all the best!!!
Baby Steph… Thank you so much for stopping by!!! Your trip looks fabulous!!! Have a great week!!!