For crying out loud we just went from being a family with two students earning a pitiful salary, to one student and two dependents… it was far more like a bowl of rice with a sprinkling of herbs and absolutely no sleep to mention and t-shirts covered in spit-up!!! And I can tell you that going to a morning Bible Study didn’t help one bit… we visited in houses that looked just like the dream, often with full-time help and one parent with a serious career and the other working from home – selling toys, bath products, salad bowls, whatever… and perfect children that weren’t actually there because they were in play-school.